I constantly find myself waiting for people who are always late. I am usually 5 minutes early for everything so it really frustrates me that most people have no regard for the other person that is waiting for them. Waiting is not one of my favourite things to do. I tend to be passive aggressive in situations like this and end up getting really mad at the person that’s late.
I came across this interesting article yesterday from my daily blog reads and thought I’d share it with our straight readers and our clueless gay guys. Yes people can be bad at sex…what a horrible thing to be horrible at wouldn’t you think? That’s right up there with bad kissers which is a total deal breaker for me. The article below was originally written by Simcha Whitehill, a New York City girl. It’s actually very interesting and informative.
I’ve tried—and mostly failed—to get my boyfriends to watch guy-on-guy porn with me. Sure, they’re always game to watch pseudo-lesbians paw each other, but they always draw the line at sweet man love! But seriously folks, there’s a lot a guy could learn about lovin’ a lady by watching two dudes go at it. So, since it doesn’t seem like I’ll ever be able to get a man to come around to the hotness that is homosexual XXX vids, I’ve decided to give guys the cheat sheet of things they could learn from gay porn…
1.) We All Want To Feel Someone (Up The Butt): You heard me. Men always take the blame for wanting anal sex, but a lot of women want to stick it to men too. After all, you men have actually got something back there that’ll get you off—your prostate. All I’m sayin’ is, you scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours.
2.) Be Aggressive: Gay porn often is a little rougher, while still consensual. Something about a man throwing you up against the wall just to kiss you is sexy to the max. It shows you want to do me, with passion. I’m not made of porcelain, I won’t break. So, feel free to let me know how bad you want it.
I’m sure everyone has been there. On a drunken emotional and vulnerable night you reach for your phone and start texting people like ex-lovers. Nowadays communication is so easy and instant that we sometimes don’t think anymore when we send messages or make that call.
Apparently there is an LG phone (LP4100) in Korea that has a built in breathalyzer to prevent drunk dialing. The iPhone has released two apps called The Bad Decision Blocker and Don’t Dial! One app lets you program certain numbers into it and temporarily blocks them for a certain time frame and will be inaccessible until the time is over (hopefully you’ll be sober by then). The other app lets your friend create a password only they would know and can give you when they feel you are sober enough to make the call.
Through the course of the last month, I’ve taken snapshots around town of people for what they’re wearing, how they look, etc. I know some of you will hate this but chill out, it’s just supposed to be entertainment. Click the images for the full view.
Most of you know that I love to travel, specially to places where minimal clothing is needed. Spain and Cuba were great because we basically lived in our “Sunga” which is a Brazilian version of a men’s swimsuit which is in between a speedo & a square cut. That being said, one of my obsessions is collecting swimsuits, so I’m constantly on the lookout for new ones. I’ve acquired many suits from my travels, through friends traveling to Brazil (the home of the Sunga) & online. I’m excited to find a Canadian owned & operated company with cool designs that I love!
I was surfing the net last week and came across a Toronto-based brand called SKMPEEZ and was impressed with their fun, colourful & unique designs. They offer two different cuts, one being the Squarez cut (a wider more coverage cut) & the Euroz cut (a slimmer “sunga” style cut). They sent us 2 pairs to wear & review for the One Mighty Party at Orlando coming up June 4-9. Watch out for my product review next month complete with pics from the trip. See a video of their Summer ’09 photoshoot campaign on the second part of the post.
Summer is just around the corner and as the weather starts to heat up more and more…the less clothing we see on people. The proper footwear is detrimental to your Summer look (the other option is shoes). In my opinion, there should only be the basic flip flop (ie. Havaianas or a reasonable facsimile in leather) at least for men, if you must wear sandals. Stay away from Birkenstocks, Tevas, Keen & those god awful Oakley Mandals. Flip flops should be simple and should not draw too much attention to your feet…they’re already exposed as it is and drawing more attention to it may not be a good idea specially if you have heinous feet. Sandals must NEVAH be worn with socks EVAH, if it’s a tad chilly out wear shoes instead.
Get a pedicure if you are going to show your tootsies to the world. Nobody wants to see cracked, yellow nails and dry skin. It is important during the Summer to pay more attention to moisturizing your feet since they will be exposed more than usual. See Jamie’s post on “Feet: Are Yours Ready for Summer?”
What is a Flip Flop?
Thunderheist is an electro-duo originating from Toronto. This album is mostly electronica infused with oldschool hip-hop and R&B. Each track makes you want to get down and dirty, but not that dirty. With most electronica music it does tend to become repetitive but in a good way. I saw them perform “Nothing 2 Step 2″ live on MTV.ca & they were actually pretty good. They were dynamic and entertaining.
Listen to their album from their MySpace page HERE.
However, my favourite track from their debut album is “Jerk It”. Slightly suggestive & sexy (ok maybe not slightly suggestive). They put out a contest for this track and voted on submissions from fans for the video. The best one and I believe this was the one that won below:
I’m constantly on a search for good music in the form of remixes. I rarely listen to the original versions of tracks. I find music through various different sources such as blogs, podcasts & torrents.
My favourite Top 3 podcasts right now which you’ll find on my iPhone are:
What are your favourite podcasts at the moment? I’d love to know what people are listening to…specially in the progressive house genre, electronica & dance.