Masturbation: Let’s Discuss

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Let’s talk about this…because I’m surprised we haven’t already. Choking the chicken. Jerking off. Everyone does it, yet it’s something we don’t talk about in great detail so I thought, why don’t I write about it. Actually, part of the inspiration from this article came from a discussion with a few other Homorazzi cast members and a couple other friends while chatting in the hot tub the other night. Boy, would it have made a great Side Dish discussion, but I’ll do my best to try to cover some of the things we discussed that night.

It was quite hilarious actually. We talked about certain aspects of masturbation that I personally have never discussed with anyone before. Things that are specific to each individual and their own ways of….pleasing themselves.

Before I move onto these topics, I will say that I never actually masturbated until I was 18. Yup, unheard of, I know. Not because I was a good little Catholic boy or anything (although I did grow up Catholic), but more so because I just “didn’t know”. I didn’t know that if I did “A” like so, for “X” amount of time, that “C” would be the result. Anyway, I eventually figured out…after someone else did it for me. Whoa. TMI.

Anyway, if any of this offends you, do not read on. Reader discretion is advised.

Porn?

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Well, certainly porn comes up in a discussion about Masturbation. Now in this case, we talked about our favorite pornos or sites to go to when having that alone time. Sites like Sean Cody and Corbin Fisher came up, as well as (rest in peace) DudeVu, where you’d be able to watch streaming, full length porn without having to download them to your hard drive. This site is no longer though. XTube is still around though, if you’re into the more amateur, and a little more “straight” stuff, which I do like occasionally. That was my thing, I’m kind of over downloading a bunch of videos and having them take up a bunch of space on my computer. I prefer having these sites to go to where I can just watch what I want to watch and then be done with it, and look for something else the next time. What websites do you like?

Along with this whole porn talk, we also got into specifics, as to like what each of us looked for in a “worthy” video, meaning the video that you would actually, what’s the word again?… ejaculate. Sometimes you see a video and you’re like, “Oh, this one might be good.” So you kinda, set it aside as the maybe, in case nothing better comes along. We had a good laugh about that one…the fact that we all did that. The other part was what “acts” need to happen in the video to fit into each of our criteria. I won’t go into the specifics of that, but I’m sure you can guess what some of these were. What do you look for in a video?

Position?

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This was another aspect about “jerking off” that I had never heard discussed aloud in person before. We were all talking about what position our legs are in, whether we’re sitting or lying. It was interesting people saying how their legs had to be open, or that their legs are far enough apart so that it’s perfect for the laptop placement. Not that it’s weird, but discussing it aloud was weird, but good. Some people talked about their feet on the coffee table, or even just sitting. I had mentioned that in one of the buildings I lived in, across the alley, a guy used to jerk off in his living room in front of his laptop, cross legged, which we all agreed we thought was an awkward position to be in.

Random or Routine?

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Do you do it every night? Every morning? I think for everyone it seemed to be more of a routine thing, like at least every day or two. What I did find interesting is how much time some of my friends spend doing the deed! For me, I don’t want to spend an hour doing it, a half hour would be a long time for me. I just kind of have very little spare time these days that I don’t feel like I have an hour to spare doing it, otherwise I probably would. Maybe I wouldn’t be as much of a stress case if I did though? Haha.

The other thing about this is for people in relationships, how often do you masturbate alone? Is this something that you had to discuss with your partner so that it didn’t create issues?
How often do you spend doing it and is it routine?

Where?

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Of course your bedroom…but I’m asking, where is the most scandalous place you have done it? I’ve heard people say they’ve done it at work, etc., so I’d be curious to know how often people do it in places that do not include the privacy of their own home. Speaking of which, living in a metropolitan area, we also talked about the fact that it’s quite possible that if your blinds are open, people in the neighboring building have seen you in action. If that’s the case, did you put on a show, or run and hide? I for one have a little bit of exhibitionist in me (apparently) so let’s just say the sun was still shining in my apartment. How about you…Blinds open or closed?

Lube?

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The general consensus in our discussion was that none of us use lube when masturbating. We all basically said that it took away from the experience, it’s messy, and it actually creates more work. But, is this a cut vs. uncut thing? Lube or no lube?

How often do you masterbate?

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  • Very interesting to think about the variety of methods. I guess you tend to get stuck in a routine. I know I’ve got mine, to a degree. It’s changed once in a while but generally go through the same motions.

  • Jay

    I always use lube! the thought of not using it scares me haha. that being said, I am cut and use a silicone based lube. And as for dudevu? I have found itsallgay.com to be a extremely similar website. hope this helps 🙂 happy jerking

    and blinds always open 😛

  • YESSSSS! That was a great conversation Sunday (and provided some interesting ideas).

  • Timothy

    sooo I totally spent hours upon hours of my teenage life on a site called http://www.jackinworld.com it virtually raised me!
    R.I.P. Dudesvu! go to gayforit.com … I just wish I still had all my favourites saved!

  • bruin

    yeah i grew up with jackinworld also.
    not knowing until you were 18? does that mean you never had a deliberate orgasm until you were 18??? might as well share the deets since you already brought it up!

  • hafeAbekbab

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  • Kit Palmer that his mom is Mitchell Quintero

    I masrturbate more than two times a day

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