Filed under: Music, Tommy D
Author: Tommy D
Date: Feb 11, 2011
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The biggest thing so far this year came out this morning. The HIGHLY HIGHLY HIGHLY anticipated new single from Lady Gaga “Born This Way” was released at 9am PST this morning. I have to give you a little bit of history with this song and me. When she released the few lines at the VMA’s, my friend Peter Breeze and I started to talk about it, and he made a good point “I hope she doesn’t get preachy”, which I could see happening. At her latest concert it seemed like it was all about that. Don’t get me wrong, I LOVED Monster Ball Pt.2 (even thought Pt.1 is still her best concert to date for me), but I was just really worried that she was going to bring us another Heal the World. (Yes I know it was a big hit but you know what I mean)
Then she released her lyrics. I thought they were ridiculous. I STILL think they are ridiculous. They pretty much are exactly what I thought they were going to be. I didn’t really know quite what my feelings were about this, but James St. James hit the nail on the head with his article which you can read HERE…but here’s the key quote…
A gay anthem, whether it’s “I Will Survive” or “The Man That Got Away” or “And I’m Telling You I’m Not Going,” BECOMES a gay anthem because we find ourselves empathizing with the singer’s passion or pain or exuberance. It’s the realization that their pain is our pain too, that their joy is our joy etc. It’s that our commonality has brought us together. It’s ALMOST NEVER because it was written FOR GAY MEN TO HELP GAY MEN DEAL WITH BEING GAY MEN. That’s just cynical and obvious….Gaga here isn’t allowing us the choice of deciding whether or not this song will be a gay anthem (like “Bad Romance”), she’s TELLING US that it is, and that makes it somehow less pure and less satisfying. It’s contrived.”
This pretty much explains my feeling to a T. It’s just seems so contrived. I was reserving my complete judgment until I heard the final song, and PRAYING that she was going to do something amazing with it. And it was released this morning. While it’s not my favourite song by Lady Gaga WHATSOEVER, it will do what it needs to do. It’s sounds way too cheesy, a bit too fast. It kinda sounds like a wannabe gay anthem from the 90′s. All I think about “Take me to the clouds above” for some reason. It’s probably going to sell a gillion copies, but compared to her LAST first single Bad Romance, Born This Way just doesn’t measure up whatsoever. But it will get the mainstream audience singing the words “gay transgender & bi” in clubs. It’s nothing REALLY groundbreaking though. I’ll wait for the remix, and I’ll wait for the next single.
Take a listen below.
PS – Don’t get it twisted, I already know all the words and will be singing it at the top of my lungs when I’m wasted I’m sure…but it’s not my favourite by far. PREACH!
David
February 11th, 2011 at 11:05 am
It’s a complete rip-off of Express Yourself by Madonna. Ugh. Blerg.
Markatlarge
February 11th, 2011 at 11:52 am
I had this version on my Ipod for a few weeks, http://bit.ly/fNHW5U
I though it was a rough cut of the original, but it sounds nothing like the original. But I did love it. Especially how it builds after she sings the first lyric. This mix needs some more lyrics but its on the right track. I hope they can amp this remix up a bit more, and I think she will have a epic song on her hand. Just remember Umbrella didn’t take off till it was remixed.
I like the original, buts its a little too mainstream pop. Kinda not edgy enough. Given the nature of the song she probably had to release this one first, it goes with her whole narrative, but I’m sure there are hotter tracks on the album.
Landon
February 11th, 2011 at 12:47 pm
You people are crazy its amazing and she accomplished what she set out to do
Tommy D
February 11th, 2011 at 1:55 pm
It’s SO FAR from being amazing. It’s is nothing more than mediocre.
Gaga should be absolutely ashamed of herself. Calling this the best record of the decade, that it will change the world.
SHAME ON YOU GAGA!
Jordan
February 11th, 2011 at 2:05 pm
It’s cliché and contrived.
Tyrell
February 11th, 2011 at 2:13 pm
As much as Tommy will hate this comment, Ke$ha’s ‘We R Who We R’ is a better gay anthem than this song.
Rich
February 11th, 2011 at 2:15 pm
It’s forced, it’s Madonna, but that doesn’t mean I’m not gonna dance my face off belting out the lyrics at 1am in the club. Obviously.
Patrick
February 11th, 2011 at 2:28 pm
I like it. I think if it was anyone else, people wouldn’t be as hard on her…that being said, it’s kinda refreshing to see that she’s not immune to it and that Christina isn’t on her own. The song is catchy and it’s for the gays. She has stood up for gays time and time again, I’m not gonna hate on her for coming up with her own gay anthem for us. I too will definitely be dancing and singing to this song and I know it will grow on those that think they don’t like it.
Tommy D
February 11th, 2011 at 2:48 pm
@TYRELL
THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT OF THIS MORNING! WE R WHO WE R IS A WAY BETTER SONG…i actually really like that song.
Got that glitter on my eyes…stalking ripped all up the sides.
so much better.
ugh i am so sad.
Calan
February 11th, 2011 at 3:28 pm
I love it. I herd it last night at around 2:30am and was hooked. I love the fact that she wrote a song FOR the gays, she’s always supported us and I think that’s awesome. I love the cheese-pop factor of the song as well, it totally works and gives you that feel good beat down in your tummy.
Tommy D
February 11th, 2011 at 4:23 pm
Of course you do Calan.
Stephen
February 11th, 2011 at 6:31 pm
The song is about having a positive self-image. If you’re not into the beat or the lyrics that’s fine, different strokes for different folks. Lady Gaga is at a point in her career were when she speaks people listen. Listen to the lyrics. Self-image is something that I think hits close to home for all gay men. All she’s saying is accept yourself for who you are, no matter how different you feel. I say good on m’lady for the song, she has nothing to be ashamed of, she’s building people up instead of tearing them down.
Mitchell H
February 11th, 2011 at 6:43 pm
I’m happy that the song isn’t being widely accepted by ALL gays everywhere just because it’s Gaga. I like that (some) people are actually looking at it more critically. I know that for myself, if this is what a culture-changing gay anthem sounds like in 2011, I don’t know if I can or want to identify with gay culture. It has its mix of positives and negatives, and I’m not saying its the worst thing I’ve ever heard, but it IS underwhelming given the hype Gaga and her team have built for it.
Having undeniable impact and success in the pop music world doesn’t entitle you to be free of criticism if you under-deliver, especially after over-hyping for months. This is fine, but it’s not extraordinary, and her pretension and recent sense of entitlement are ruining her for me. (FYI Gaga – bragging that you wrote a song in 10 minutes isn’t a great selling point when it shows.)
Landon
February 11th, 2011 at 10:15 pm
She wrote this for us, she is the ONLY gay support icon that EVER had the balls to out and out support us in a song and say LGBT is okay and a different lovers not a sin…none of your other fav icons were brave enough to put their neck out for us like this…you should be praising her not hating on her…..you are all utterly unappreciative
Landon
February 11th, 2011 at 10:16 pm
there may have been allusions to us before, but Gaga is the first to really stick her neck out for us and dedicate a whole song to us so you should all be ashamed of yourselves
IT IS A GREAT SONG
Tommy D
February 11th, 2011 at 10:34 pm
Again…never said i didnt’ appreciate it. It’s just a bad song.
Landon
February 11th, 2011 at 10:41 pm
no its not its a good song
Rick
February 11th, 2011 at 11:27 pm
Love her songs. Totally LOVED the Monster Ball 1 concert …but I think musically this is her 1st crappy single. I feel like I’m missing some back-story here cuz I can’t follow the thread back to where SHE is telling anyone that this will be a Gay Anthem.
Calan
February 12th, 2011 at 12:38 am
And of course you felt the need to leave a comment specially for me :) you must really like me Tommy :)
Ryan
February 12th, 2011 at 2:30 am
Oh Tommy…
You have the right to dislike the song, but you can’t always expect everyone to jump on your catty bandwagon.
It’s not her best, but it’s far better than most pop music. I think when Elton et all said it was “I Will Survive”, they may have been touching on the fact that it is the only time a straight (ish) mainstream artist specifically referenced homosexuality throughout a song.
Because it’s Gaga, it will be played on every radio station around the world – might not be the greatest song of all time, but it definitely won’t hurt our “cause” will it?
So, get over yourself and stop harping…we get it… you don’t likey.
Darren
February 12th, 2011 at 3:57 pm
i think a lot of people aren’t liking the song because Gaga hyped us up a lot about how AMAZING it was gonna be. and when i heard it i was a little disappointed. then i went back and read the lyrics while playing the song at the same time and it really started to speak to me, now its my ringtone, the song i hum unconsciously and plain jump around in my dorm singing song. i believe if she didnt put so much hype behind the song, it would be liked more, because although i like the song, it isn’t her BEST song, but it is her best message, in my opinion.
Andrew
February 12th, 2011 at 6:17 pm
Self proclaimed gay anthem, notwithstanding, and cliched and predictable perhaps, but I agree the message of the song is very positive. We R Who We R may be a “better” song, but not really a “gay” anthem. It’s more a “youth” anthem imho. You may not like it now, but I’m sure it will grow on you…