Filed under: Totally GAY!, TV Shows, Tyrell
Author: Tyrell
Date: Jul 27, 2011
The Bachelorette is about to come to a dramatic close with Ashley having to choose between two men: J.P. Rosenbaum or Ben Flajnik. Both men couldn’t be more opposite from each other but the question still remains… who will Ashley give the final rose to AND will they propose to her in the beautiful scenery of Fiji? Let me share my thoughts on each of the men.
J.P. Rosenbaum has always been an early favorite of mine. I mean look at him, what’s not to love? He’s absolutely adorable. He has one of those winning smiles that makes you swoon and weak in the knees. When he is with Ashley, I see the more playful and fun side in her. The only thing that annoys me about J.P. is that he can kind of be a cry baby sometime, if not all the time. However, I really hope that she picks him in the end. I think they could be the next Trista & Ryan or Ali & Roberto.
To be perfectly honest, I kept getting Ben Flajnik and his friend Constantine mixed up every single episode. They look EXACTLY THE SAME. I was even convinced that in some sort of conspiracy, they were twins. Now that Constantine has left, it’s easier for me to look at Ben on his own without confusing him with another man. While J.P. bring out her playful side, Ben brings out Ashley’s serious and calming side, which can be great but I think can live a little bit more with J.P.
So, if you were in Ashley’s shoes, who’d you rather? Need more help on deciding?

Occupation: Construction Manager
Hometown: Roslyn, NY
What are your 3 worst attributes? Stubborn. Frustrated too easily when things don’t go my way. Lack of patience.
What is your favorite holiday and why? Fourth of July — holidays in the middle of summer where the weather is amazing, heading out to a beach with booze, having the right girl by your side, sitting at the fire on that beach at night. It’s the ultimate summer weekend.
Do you like to go out dancing? If yes, what is your preferred type of dancing? I’m not opposed to it but I don’t necessarily “like” it. I have always wanted to learn to salsa.
What is the best trip you have ever been on and why? I traveled to Australia for 2 months when I was about 26. i just picked up and left, on my own, and bounced around the east coast of Australia. Time of my life.

Occupation: Winemaker
Hometown: Sonoma, CA
What is your favorite all-time book and why? “The Dirt” by Motley Crue. It’s crazy. Those guys epitomize the 80s metal scene.
Do you have a favorite sports team(s)? San Francisco Giants, the only team that matters.
Do you consider yourself athletic? Yes, very. I won a state championship in soccer and continue to play lots of intermural sports.
What is the best trip you have ever been on and why? 2006 World Cup trip to Germany with 9 of my buddies.
Okay everyone, the choice is now yours. Vote below on who’d you rather…
Diana Webb
July 27th, 2011 at 7:19 pm
Ben was one of my personal favorites from the start, but I can see Ashley is in love with JP and is going to break Ben’s heart in the end! :-(
Kathy
July 28th, 2011 at 12:27 pm
I totally disagree with Ashleys reaction to each guy. I actually think it is Ben that brings out the playful and humourous side in Ashley – not JP. I think JP is so serious and quite frankly a bit boring. I see major chemistry between Ashley and Ben. I think they have major physical attraction