Filed under: Patrick, Politics & Issues, Totally GAY!, Videos
Author: Patrick
Date: Jan 23, 2013
Now here’s a little sunshine on a rainy day (at least where I am situated). A high school student named Jacob Rudolph, a high school senior in Parsippany, New Jersey was delivering his acceptance speech for “Class Actor” when he decided to come out publically as gay to the 300+ students that were gathered there. Here’s what he said:
“Sure, I’ve been in a few plays and musicals, but more importantly, I’ve been acting every single day of my life. You see, I’ve been acting as someone I’m not. Most of you see me every day. You see me acting the part of ‘straight’ Jacob, when I am in fact LGBT. Unlike millions of other LGBT teens who have had to act every day to avoid verbal harassment and physical violence, I’m not going to do it anymore. It’s time to end the hate in our society and accept the people for who they are regardless of their sex, race, orientation, or whatever else may be holding back love and friendship. So take me leave me or move me out of the way. Because I am what I am, and that’s how I’m going to act from now on.”
Okay, my eyes welled up when he said that last part and they did again when I typed it out. Such a brave kid and clearly an indication that progress is being made. The standing ovation he received at the end of his speech is a great example of that. I was the valedictorian of my high school graduating class and certainly didn’t have it on my mind nor was I at all prepared for such a brave speech at that time. That was a little over ten years ago. If I was graduating today, I might consider it, given that so many have paved the way over the last ten years. Obviously, I can’t say for sure. I have never really thought about that until watching this. What is for sure is that this kid is awesome. Watch the touching and inspiring video below.
via Towleroad
Rob
January 23rd, 2013 at 5:28 pm
so brave, that is really cool wish i would have seen such a speech when i was young
Smiles
January 23rd, 2013 at 7:48 pm
Fuck, Good for him! Best Video I have seen by Far.
jay
January 23rd, 2013 at 7:53 pm
That’s awesome, wish I had the guts to do that 5 years ago.
James
January 23rd, 2013 at 11:11 pm
Good for you Jacob! More power to you. I wish I’d had the guts it took for you to do this, when I was your age. Instead I continued to play the role and married, had kids and then broke hearts when I finally came out.
Believe in yourself. Be strong. Be authentic.
James
Dainec
January 24th, 2013 at 9:38 am
Go Jacob Go! Times are a changing, I came out in high-school 8 years ago to a not so similar reaction. We’ve come far in those 8 years. Keep on fighting the good fight!
Chris
January 24th, 2013 at 11:12 am
couldn’t he just, like, come out? I’m confused as to why there’s so much fanfare from his fellow classmates. I get that in some places coming out is still a big deal, and regardless of where it is it’s always commendable, however I’m torn on spectacles like this. On one hand it made me totally teary eyed and on the other hand I feel it feeds into the mythology that coming out is ‘an event’, that being gay is so shameful that one has to go above and beyond simply living as who they/we are. As a gay man I spent the majority of my adolescence fighting the “I’m more than my sexuality” dogma that permeates small town Canada. Whatever happened to just living your life truthfully without having to show others just how special it is?
tim
January 24th, 2013 at 12:15 pm
baller as all hell
Michael
January 24th, 2013 at 1:23 pm
This reminds me of a movie tiled “Beautiful Thing”. So beautiful, i wish i was that brave!
Belladonna
January 26th, 2013 at 1:11 am
That’s was so Amazing I was about to cry. lol I sometimes forget how powerful me and other young and 20 somethings year old’s can be. I came out at 15 to everyone and im 24 now and its easy to forget how brave i was to do that lol at the time I just needed to be who the hell i wanted to be but looking at it now it was kind of crazy and I went through a lot of shit lol But it was one of the best things I’ve ever did.lol
Belladonna
January 26th, 2013 at 1:13 am
I met to say ( One of The best things I’ve ever done) lol
Rudy
April 20th, 2013 at 11:07 am
Amazong video! Wish I had guts like that in high school