Filed under: Patrick, Politics & Issues, Totally GAY!
Author: Patrick
Date: Jun 28, 2010
A well known and respected Washington, DC couple, Bob Davis and Henry Schalizki (both 89 years old) got married by Rev. John Detaeye over the weekend after being together for 64 years! They met in Rhode Island in 1942. In an interview they joked, “It was a long engagement,” and “we wanted to make sure.” Bob Davis is a retired WGMS Radio Announcer and Henry is from H.A. Gill & Son Realtors. They talked about their experience up to the current date and the progression of human rights.
One thing that I found really interesting is that Henry said that the two of them have never ever gone to a gay bar. They have had no interest – they said they had each other and their circle of friends, and that’s all they needed.
One of their secrets to longevity is “I’m always right and he gets his way.” Hilarious. You should watch the video of their interview and snippets of the ceremony. My eyes started to water a little when they put the rings on each others fingers and held each other’s hands, and were pronounced to be married after over sixty years together, surviving through decades and decades of the fight for equality and even just being in a relationship. They are two incredible people and I myself want more gay couples like this to look up to. It’s really touching and very encouraging.
Thank you for sharing your story, and congratulations Bob & Henry. Check out their interview below.
ThatDavidGuy
June 29th, 2010 at 9:05 pm
This is really lovely. I have no better words than that. Thank you for posting this!
kate
December 18th, 2010 at 11:31 am
I have no idea how I found this site, since I am a hetero sexual female, but, I support gay rights and found this to be one of the sweetest things ever. This should be an example for anyone who thinks that gay marriage shouldn’t be allowed. Look at these two! They’ve been in love longer than half of any straight couples in this country, plus, their love had to go through so much, and they still came out fighting.
I think that ANYONE who is that much in love should have the right to marry!
sarah
April 27th, 2012 at 1:53 am
I came across this site through a facebook link or I never would have seen this either. Being together for 64 years is no small feat for anyone! I hope more people check this out, especially with the high divorce rates and the homophobic rhetoric. Clearly, we’ve forgotten what marriage truly means.
cowalker
April 28th, 2012 at 1:34 am
Heterosexuals, please!
Stop obsessing over abstractions and observe reality. That is all I ask, but that is apparently too much when it comes to fundamentalists, Latter Day Saints and Catholics.