Filed under: Patrick, Sports & Health, Totally GAY!
Author: Patrick
Date: May 6, 2010
Kiwi Olympian, Blake Skjellerup in an interview with DNA Magazine. The 24-year old says he waited to come out until after the Vancouver 2010 Winter Olympics because he wanted to have the focus entirely on his skating, and not have people focusing more on his sexuality. He wasn’t hiding it at the games, as he walked around the venue hand in hand with his bf, but he just hadn’t “officially” said anything.
That being said, he did visit the Pride House – and was also very surprised at being the only competing athlete to visit the Whistler meeting point.
“I was a bit shocked that I was the first competing gay athlete from these Olympics to visit, especially since I wasn’t able to make it there (owing to scheduling conflicts) until after I had finished competing. But it was great to see such a thing. If I had felt like I needed a space to be myself away from the Olympic village, it would have been there. I hope the idea can grow from Olympics to Olympics.
He also talked about stereo types and role models:
“Gays are too often given a stereotype. Back when I was 18, and becoming serious about my sport and my Olympic goals, if I could have seen an athlete like myself out there – with whom I could relate to – my journey would have been a lot easier.
Johnny Weir meets a specific stereotype, I meet a specific stereotype and Gareth Thomas meets another. Being gay is just like any other personality trait: it’s multifaceted. I can’t personally relate to Weir or Thomas, and nor will many other young gay athletes out there. But maybe some of them will see something in me to relate to. The more types we provide, the more we’ll appeal to people [who are struggling with their sexuality.”
Some great points.
Adam A.
May 6th, 2010 at 11:19 am
Um is this supposed to be the big reveal that we have all been waiting for on the 5th of May? I hope not!
Patrick
May 6th, 2010 at 11:23 am
Haha, no it isn’t. Actually it was:
http://www.homorazzi.com/article/chely-wright-lesbian-gay-comes-out-closet-country-singer-people-magazine-memoir-like-me/
It got announced earlier after the story had leaked.
Either way, that whole hype was anti-climatic for sure.
Adam
May 6th, 2010 at 12:25 pm
LAME.
I know most people are “in your own time” but celebs of any sort who time their coming out to not interfere with their fame (or to propel it) are not exactly aces in my book.
A) i’m SURE you didn’t want “focus from your sport” but really, you didn’t want to lose endorsement deals or country support or actually deal with bigoted guys during the sports (which braver than this guy 16-year old kids do everyday in high schools everywhere)..
B) I went to the gay pavilion AFTER my sports were over due to a “scheduling conflict” puh-lease… if you REALLY wanted to take the 7 minute walk to the gay zone, you would have buddy. You just didn’t want to get “caught” before you performed.
C) You come out JUST as the buzz from the Olympics is all over and you’re not in the spot light any longer…? I’m guessing Pepsi didn’t snatch him up so he’s hoping Aussie Bum is gonna want him now :S
Congrats on someone high profile-ish coming out, but lame that he’s not admitting to any fear or convenient timing…
Not for me.